By: Martin Merrill
Women are Emotional
They care more about how they feel than how they think. Generally, women tend to be less logical than men. (That’s why laughter is extremely important and why good humor works on them most of the time.)
Have you ever seen hot babes giggling nonstop at some other men’s jokes which aren’t funny to you at all? Did you find yourself thinking, “Hey, that joke wasn’t funny at all…what’s wrong with her?” See? You were using logic.
Whatever can amuse a particular woman is funny. Period. Focus on the emotional effect on women, not logical effect.
What delivers emotion? Not words themselves, but pictures these words create. In order to make a woman feel you need to send mental pictures to her mind. Use very descriptive and evocative language to make her feel amused. Women interpret humor differently and laugh for different reasons. And most women are easily disturbed by ideas that they are not used to.
It’s a natural self-protection mechanism. For example, if they laugh at sexual or ethnic jokes openly in public, their images would suffer more than men do. That’s why a woman is less likely to laugh at “unorthodox” jokes.
So keep in mind that you (as a man) find funny may completely fail to entertain a woman. Even if you chose the right material, you may still fail to make her laugh. There is still one step missing. A woman must want to be made laugh by you in the first place— It’s illogical. It’s counterintuitive. I know. But have you ever stopped to give some thoughts to what women like in general? Astrology, romance novel, window shopping, female magazines (have you read one before?)…those should tell you something.
Women don’t stop to think “Hey, this joke is cleverly constructed so it’s logical to laugh at it” and then laugh. They are intrigued not only by what’s said but also who said it and how it was said. It happens all the time that a woman finds a man’s joke to be funny merely because she likes him, vice versa—if she doesn’t like you she won’t consider anything you say as funny. That means you have to work a lot harder if you fail to build rapport with her during the initial encounter.
Women are emotional and not logical. Play by this rule.
Women are Instinctive
Do you know that a woman typically decides her relationship with another man in the first half minute from meeting him? That’s why “first impression” is emphasized so much by so many dating experts.
A woman almost always knows “instinctively” whether you can be a lover within minutes. If you’ve made a good impression upon her, good for you! The humor techniques you’re about to learn will almost certainly work big time following that; if you’ve not made a good impression, move on to the clear goal of obtaining a favorable impression with humor in the next few minutes or as quickly as possible.
Women are instinctive. You should use it to your advantage.
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