What are the best traits that the woman should possess? So that we can say she is the ideal woman to have in the lives of men and perfect model to any woman that’s worth imitating.
Different woman have different values but they also have qualities in common. Some qualities they own are surely the replica of others. Men nowadays are looking for beauty, sexiness, and the overall appeal of the woman. Is this good or bad? Or we overlooked the important element that the woman should have.
So I’m going to tell my own say on this. What are the traits that the woman should have, I’m going to give my own 5 traits that the woman should possess:
1.) SHE SHOULD HAVE PATIENCE
I really admire a woman who has a patience running in her system, not rushing things up and has this coolness in her that whatever happens she can pull it through. Another thing if a man is late she has the patience to wait for the guy, I know it should not be that way, but hey things happen.
2.) SHE SHOULD HAVE SELF-CONTROL
What better way to test a woman of her true nature than testing her self-control. I am not a fan really of a woman who doesn’t know how to control herself in her vices, in the way she deals with people, the way she present herself and the way she handles her life with no self-discipline. I don’t like seeing a girl in the bar with unorthodox look messing around and not in her right mind anymore. I don’t pity her, I pity the guy who’s taking advantage of that woman, instead of helping the woman to be better, he’s helping the woman to fulfill he’s needs. What a dork!
3.) SHE CAN STAND ON HER OWN
She should have the values and principles that she can stand on every principle that she believes in. I love a woman who can speak up her mind and can tell me her view in any matter in anything. She’s not afraid to tell me that I’m wrong on something and can stood firm to her ideals.
4.) SHE IS SENSITIVE ENOUGH
She should be sensitive enough to know what is going on and act to it accordingly. She knows how to adjust in situations and can adapt to it, she should be versatile in nature. She should have this lion heart in a dove structure. And a big heart that sensitive enough to care.
5.) SHE KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS
She can decide on her future, she can decide in what path she could take, she can live her life the way she want it. If she want to do something in her career, personal life, leisure time and other facets of her life, no second thought she will immediately do it. A woman who has a strong will to make it happen.
These are my 5 traits that the woman that I think should possess. You may disagree with me or agree its okay. We have different views in life.
For the woman out there, what are the 5 traits that you should possess to be a better woman?
And for the man, what are the 5 traits you’re looking for a woman?
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This blog is fantastic!!! Great background, art work, and most importantly, writing!!! The 5 traits that I already possess are:
1) Compassion
2) Intelligence
3) Giving
4) Love
5) Peacemake
Thanks myundiary for the compliment, well nice trait with the intelligence you have with full of compassion love giving and a peacemaker you surely had a great heart.
Hi! Nice thoughts… What do you think about the Proverbs 31:10 woman? I think you will like her better.
The Woman Who Fears the LORD
Proverbs 31: 10-31
10[a](A) An excellent wife who can find?
She is far more precious than(B) jewels.
11The heart of her husband trusts in her,
and he will have no lack of gain.
12She does him good, and not harm,
all the days of her life.
13She(C) seeks wool and flax,
and works with willing hands.
14She is like the ships of the merchant;
she brings her food from afar.
15She(D) rises while it is yet night
and(E) provides food for her household
and portions for her maidens.
16She considers a field and buys it;
with the fruit of her hands she plants a vineyard.
17She(F) dresses herself[b] with strength
and makes her arms strong.
18She perceives that her merchandise is profitable.
Her lamp does not go out at night.
19She puts her hands to the distaff,
and her hands hold the spindle.
20She(G) opens her hand to(H) the poor
and reaches out her hands to the needy.
21She is not afraid of snow for her household,
for all her household are clothed in(I) scarlet.[c]
22She makes(J) bed coverings for herself;
her clothing is(K) fine linen and(L) purple.
23Her husband is known in(M) the gates
when he sits among the elders of the land.
24She makes(N) linen garments and sells them;
she delivers sashes to the merchant.
25(O) Strength and dignity are her clothing,
and she laughs at the time to come.
26She opens her mouth with wisdom,
and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.
27She looks well to the ways of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28Her children rise up and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
29″Many(P) women have done(Q) excellently,
but you surpass them all.”
30(R) Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain,
but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.
31Give her of the fruit of her hands,
and let her works praise her in the gates
Great blog!
wow that’s great post zhey chua a woman who fears the lord not only ideals and wisdom but also in spirit. thanks
That isn’t from me, it’s written in the Scriptures
so that woman described there is actually a description of a Godly woman. Also, that description of an ideal woman isn’t given to us (through the Scriptures) by a man – they actually came from King Lemuel’s mother who advised her son to look for those attributes in a woman when finding a wife. Galeng di ba?:)
yap i got it, I hope there are still a lot of godly woman out there
Hmm.. I’m confident en0ugh to say that I have numbers 3 and 5 traits lols hahah! How I wish i could have it all.
No it’s ok dyosah, There’s no perfect woman the important thing is you’ve learned to accept your flaws and willing to get better
Your blog theme looks cool. What template did you use ?