By: Marius Panzarella
Every woman is different. Not everyone wants to feel brilliant or beautiful. The girl’s ideal self-image of herself will be crucial to what you your compliment should be about.
Usually it’s what the girl WANTS to be, rather then what she already is. For example, I can almost bet you money that attractive women are used to compliments on their looks. If she really is beautiful, she already knows it. She doesn’t need another ass-kisser to tell her she is hot enough to be a model.
Dating Technique: Don’t Compliment A Beautiful Woman On Her Looks
Never compliment a beautiful woman on her body. She already knows how hot she is. Compliment on her intelligence instead.
Dating Technique: Always Compliment An Ugly Woman On Her Looks
If you compliment an average-looking or ugly woman on her looks, she will be flattered as long as you do it in a “sincere” way.
Your compliment should reflect the ideal self-image of the girl. Before you compliment her, think about what she would want you to compliment her for. What would she most like you to recognize her for? Her intelligence? Her sense of honesty? Or her humor?
Dating Technique: Compliment On Her Ideal Self-Image
It works better to compliment someone on what they WANT to be, rather than what they are.
For example, if you already know you have a cute face, it won’t be a surprise to you if a girl calls you cute. You may be a tiny bit flattered, but not that much.
But if you’ve always wanted to have a nice set of abs but don’t believe that you do, if a girl compliments on your nice stomach, you’re going to be flattered.
Chances are, you are not going to know too much about the girl because you have just met her. No problem. Over the years, I’ve come to realize that most attractive women want to be praised for intelligence and insights, while less attractive women want to be told how good looking they are.
Remember that giving a compliment is a way of showing your approval. Every woman wants to be loved, so if you approve her or something that has never been approved by any other men before, she is going to dig you.
Dating Technique: Show Your Approval
Women are always seeking your approval. Always give it to them. When a girl asks, “Do you like my earrings?” do not put her down or ignore her. It only takes a moment to say “Yes, darling, I love your earrings.”
It is also vital that your compliment is about something the girl is responsible for. For example, if you do compliment on a girl’s looks, don’t tell her she has a nice body. If you do that, you are really just complimenting the Creator, not her.
Rather then complimenting her on something she’s born with, compliment her on something she has accomplished herself – such as how nicely her blouse matches with her skirt.
Dating Technique: Compliment On What She Has Accomplished Herself
Try to compliment on something the girl is responsible for!
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