This is an interesting topic because it can serve you in both ways. The result would be, you will turn out to be a bad person or you will turn out to be a great person. Which is which, this is because of the love you have in a person.
On the morning of Valentine’s Day my phone rang and when I answered the phone the other guy on the line started to curse me, utter profanities and swearword. I’m shocked! What! Are you kidding me? And after that he dropped the phone. The guy is very emotional and I felt he is bursting with anger.
What would be the cause of that? Well his girlfriend is my new friend and because of that, I don’t know maybe that is one of the causes, but we have no communication for a week until now. I don’t know what happened to both of them, maybe they quarrel. Well, I will say sorry If I did something wrong to make their relationship in limbo.
I understand what he feels but I don’t understand the course of action he have done. Maybe he is a jealous kind of guy and he don’t want any guy near his girlfriend, what! I really disagree if that is the way he treats women. He is not even married to the girl yet and even if they are married is that mean He has all the right to fence her all her life away from guys.
I remember when the girl and I had a conversation through text messaging and she said; what do I feel if some other guys will text my girl and try to flirt? I said; well it’s her prerogative to do the necessary things and if I have the same mentality as before I will be jealous immediately and that would be a cause of sulkiness and misunderstanding.
I believe that girl has the right to do whatever she wants in accordance to morality. Meeting new guys and new people should not be stopped by anybody. This is not only for girls but all human beings. You can test the foundation of the relationship by being open minded and willingness to interact with other people. The right of a person to be friend with other people outside his/her circle will never be obsolete and you can’t take that away from a person just because you’re jealous or insecure about yourself.
You can do a lot of things in the name of love, some people are ready to kill and be killed because of that. Some people will commit suicide because of that or threaten other people because they don’t want anybody close to their special someone. What a love can do!
There is also a positive side of it. A person can become responsible, nice to other people; he/she will become a character person and other positive traits because of love. That would be a good thing if people have a proper mindset when it comes to love. But honestly, some people don’t have that.
I hope whatever course of action you will take, Do it in accordance to your belief and principle and not for some narrowness of your mind. Stand on your ground but be objective and impartial.
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