We are falling in love once, twice, thrice and so many times in our course of our lifetime. We got hurt, we got angry, we got frustrated and we got dismay on our relationship. Over and over again we want to improve every relationship we have, but sadly to say we don’t really learn from our past mistake.
We are the same person that treats love the way our heart beats. I am not saying that is bad and I’m not saying that is good either. All I’m saying is if we want LOVE to be at its best, we have to understand the truthfulness behind love.
Love is the driving force behind the madness and greatness of a person. It is the passion that it brings that makes us want for more. The intensity of waking up in the morning and have this beautiful aura because of the joy we are feeling. It’s like; Thank God it is Friday.
The truth about love is; it is not really a permanent feeling. It is really depends on our emotion in that present moment. It is really changing depending on how we perceived the actuality of our emotion.
That is why if we broke up with our partner it hurts so much but give it lets say 2 years if you are successful on dealing with that heartache and you will understand what I’m saying. If the pain is already gone you will realize that love is not an absolute feeling.
It felt good on certain time but not the whole time. Love is really a deceiving word to consider if you love someone. Because I think love is deeper than attraction, affection, and adoration. It really synonymous to these words but have different connotation. Having been said that I’m not really in a position to judge what love is because even if dictionaries have a certain meaning on it different people have different take on love pattern.
Different culture is equal to different kinds of brainwashed they have instill on us, only the obedient kind that makes it as important as life. Meaning if you have that kind of mindset you perceive that there is no point in living if you got your heart broken and you want to die because of that.
If you want to understand love and the emotion you are feeling then use your brain and think. It is a powerful tool to use especially in developing your whole person. Comprehend that you are the one who is creating the kind of love that you want be visible in the real world. In other words if it fails, you have the wrong mindset.
The best thing you can do is figure out who you are first and what you want out of love. We have different approach in this kind of feeling, so better be ready first; but as they said you have to try and try until you found the right formula to get you going. If that is what you want then be ready to toughen up your sensitivity.
Love at its true nature is very unforgivable. But if you study the in and out of it then you will find out that indeed it is worth the shot.
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