By: Derek Rake
Boyfriend destroyer techniques hinge on the principle that every partner has got imperfections – and by amplifying these imperfections you will create doubt in her mind if her boyfriend is her ideal partner after all.
The biggest mistake that one can make is to try to convince a woman LOGICALLY that he is better than her existing boyfriend. Don’t do that.
Instead, imply (or plant in her mind) that you are the superior man by following this
sequence:
1. Find out the ‘faults’ of her boyfriend.
2. Amplify the faults (using the techniques below).
3. Imply that you’re the better choice as you do not have that particular fault.
Common Fault: Being Boring
Amplification: “He’s being too comfortable with you, and that’s why he is not particularly adventurous with you anymore. Does he feel more like a brother to you now? With me, I know things get predictable after awhile, but I like to keep things spicy in a relationship.”
Common Fault: Being Needy
Amplification: “I wouldn’t blame him, really. You’re probably the only thing that is going on for him in his life, and you have to remember that he needs you to feel important.”
Common Fault: Being Abusive
Amplification: “This happens when the man is not able to control himself emotionally. He can’t control the things that are happening inside his head, and so it all comes out in a physical manner. He is probably trying to make you stay with him desperately, knowing that he won’t be able to get another woman.”
Common Fault: Being Jealous
Amplification: “He’s probably anxious that if he loses you, he won’t be able to find another woman. It’s just that he doesn’t believe his luck that he is able to have you as his girlfriend, and somehow deep inside he doesn’t think that he deserves to be with a woman of your caliber.”
Common Fault: Being Afraid To Commit
Amplification: “Deep down inside he might think that he doesn’t deserve you. So, he worries that you might leave as soon as you find someone else is better than him.”
Common Fault: Being Predictable At Sex
Amplification: “He wants to make you happy, but he’s worried that he cannot please you. So, he never strays from the beaten path. He probably will do better soon, especially when he gets over his self-esteem issues.”
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