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Soulful Relationship with a Best Friend

by johnlazy on January 29, 2009

It’s nice to have a best friend you can turn to through ups and downs of life but it’s much better if you have this deep connection more than the name “Best friend” can emphasize.

I believe you can dig deeper into your best friend’s relationship, it can be a soulful relationship, and it is more than understanding where it is not only your mind communicates but also your soul. So, how to do it? Let us see.

When you have a best friend you have this mutual understanding where you can tell all your secrets without worrying that your secrets will be revealed. She/he is someone who understands your flaws and willing to embrace it. Through good times or bad times a best friend is a best friend. But seriously you can dig deeper into each other souls and make your relationship strong as ever, by allowing you to communicate beyond understanding. It is not really easy to explain it’s unexplainable. It is like an alien communication, sounds weird, well if you and your best friend gone to that point that is a soulful relationship and that’s what I’m talking about.

So what should you do to go to that point, think out of the box. Do I make sense here? Well what I’m trying to imply is, no matter what happened don’t dislocate your feelings and thoughts to your best friend. Open mindedness will help a lot. I don’t really know the exact words to say, maybe it’s complicated more than words can say. Maybe you can explain thoroughly if you experienced it already.

Give me some input on these one if you have something in your mind.

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{ 6 comments… read them below or add one }

1 jeniffer January 29, 2009 at 11:04 pm

It’s okay to fall with your bestfriend BUT– biG but there.. if he is also not committed.. But if he is committed let the friendship remain.It would just destroy the relationship of the two.. :)

2 diamondmum January 29, 2009 at 11:54 pm

yes true…just don’t let the friendship stumble and fall..have an open communication and worked it out!

I like the new look of your site :)

http://ondiamondmum.blogspot.com/

3 johnlazy January 30, 2009 at 3:56 pm

To jeniffer – Well you have a point but I don’t really want to comment on that one. Take care!

4 johnlazy January 30, 2009 at 4:38 pm

Yap don’t worry Diamondmum I will add you on my list. Take care!

5 Roy January 30, 2009 at 7:18 pm

a lot can be said about a friend…

a true friend, your best friend, understands every word you say…

but more importantly, he/she understands and listens even to the unspoken words…

I was fortunate to have that kind of friend once, unfortunately…

6 johnlazy January 31, 2009 at 9:09 am

Wow what happened Sir Roy whats the unfortunate thing happened. Maybe distance comes along, well maybe a part of life is a part of life. Take care!

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