Do you ever wonder why sometimes we are so desperate to solve our problems, so desperate that we want to solve it right away by hook or by crook not realizing the effect that it will cause because of our sudden burst of emotion? Why is that? Is that just an emotional uprising because we want to rid our problems right away or there is deeper reason to that difficulty?
We should also realize that problem is here to stay and no matter what solution you do it will create another problem. So we can say it is already part of human existence and so we have to really deal with it.
So we set an example, so we say in your work and personal life, the problem would be how to balance the two. You will be then consider of a solution to solve that problem, like maybe time management, but that solution will soon create another problem and that you will be then exhausted balancing the two or maybe to solve the difficulty you have to drop one of them, but of course your emotional part would suffer. Which is which, we can say problem is a continued process.
Another example would be in business. In business when they are creating a product they see to it that the problem of consumers would be met by producing a product that will definitely useful and valuable. But after that, guess what! Another problem would arise because of the high demand on the consumers’ part; the company should produce more products so that it will meet the high demand. That would be a good problem to deal with. But what if the product will not sell and they over produce it; of course the problem will set in because the product will go to waste.
The faster you solve the problem the faster a new problem arises and that’s the whole process of life. So learn to embrace it like a gift because if not you will be miserable your whole life. Don’t blame yourself or others if problem come on your way because that will not help you to move forward and all your life would be then centered on blame.
Our problem really is; we think our problem is a problem, In other words our problem is; we think we should not have a problem. If you don’t have a problem then something is wrong with you, maybe you’re already dead or you’re six feet under. So be sure you’ll always have a problem because that’s a sure sign that you are still alive.
Problems will make us a better person and it will toughen our whole being and spirit. Problems will always be there to test our limitation, to test our desire to live and to check what areas of improvement should be contend with. So be prepared all the time to face problems because that’s the only way you can survive.
So every time you have problems don’t whine because that is a normal thing in human beings. It is easier said than done ha! Well that’s life, deal with it!
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The title and the content of this post is sooooo real.. so awesome..
It almost brought tears to my eyes..!
Hey John, Great post, man!
Well said. Life without problem is not Life!
How can one learn to grow and better themselves if everything is smooth sailing? Problems should be approached as opportunities for personal development.
Hi Indrayani well that is really the reality of life we forget sometimes that problem is really a part of life and we desperately want to rid of it instead of dealing it the natural way which is to learn by it.
Ma’am Wenny- You’re right Ma’am Wenny well said thanks for dropping by, take care!
Problems are the spice of life. A person who doesn’t have them don’t have the depth to deal with the reality in life.
The good thing is having problems is not specific to any race, or our stature in life – rich or poor we’re up to our ears in problems. Very democratic indeed. What separates us is how we handle these problems. Perhaps the key is in having the proper mindset in tackling them head on. If we break them down in tiny little pieces, perhaps that will make it not seem enormous at all. If we approach them philosophically, then we might have the wisdom this will be soon hurdled. Or solved as the case may be. The key is in our attitude towards our problem.
To Ma’am Snow – Problem is a gauge to our lives and you’re right Ma’am it is a spice that we have to savor. Take care!
To jan – Well said jan Thanks for dropping by. Take care!
I have a saying:
“90% of the problems in your life are made by you.”
I’m not talking about Law of attraction. I’m simply talking about people making decisions without even thinking before doing things, thus leading to problems. Jumping into situations without ever giving it a second thought or seeking advice. Irrational decisions and hyper-emotional based decisions often lead to problems.
Yes, it is true that challenges (problems) can develop and build our character and strength…only IF we handle them and approach the challenges properly.
I see too many people who has the same problem for the past years. They continue to have the same problem again and again without ever solving or fixing the problem.
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Hey, nice to see my post on top of the most views
I’m terribly sorry about the grammar on that post. LOL
I’ve faced a lot of challenges in life and i’ve learned to deal with it. Optimism helps a person while in the middle of crisis. Problems are just part of our lives. You’re right it’s a process and we must learn how to ride with the flow.
To Breian Malupa- I quoted that post because I think it really helped and it is well written. Problems are part of human life it can be a good problem or a bad problem, A problem is not just for bad situations it is also for good circumstances but you have to deal with it as normal as possible. Thanks by the way, Take care!
To Ambo – Yap you’re right Ambo it is really a process. Take care brother!