Are opposite persons really attracted to each other? Well maybe or is it just a matter of coincidence that they’re being in love at that very moment when they need someone to lean on.
Is love really much better if the two person is most likely to be opposite in attitude, perspective, habits and point of view? The more they have a contrasting persona, the more the relationship will get exciting and stimulating.
This is an exciting topic of conversation because most of the people I observed had an opposite something in their sleeves. It could be opposite in looks, opposite in behaviors, opposite in public relations and the likes.
I remember my ex- girlfriend; we have different cultural beliefs, different manners and different outlook in life. I’m much more of a dreamer and she is a practical type of a person. And we always clash because of that, but the relationship is much more exciting and much more intriguing. And there is always something new we could talk about every time we had a conversation.
Everyday would be an adjusting phase for the two of us, considering the fact that we don’t agree that much about something especially on the topic of life. Is that a great situation to be in? I don’t think so, even though we tried our best to understand each other and make it up, it is really hard.
Opposite attraction I believe can work out if the two of you can handle the rigidity of the relationship. If you have the patience to endure the vulnerability of the circumstances, then maybe opposite attraction well work best on you. Love is not enough, Love alone can’t stand. So try to think about it and then make your bold move.
But I really admired those persons despite of conflicting persona they try to make up for each other’s weaknesses. Example of that is about looks, when people see couple with contrasting look they immediately said something not nice to those couple. Maybe the guy is thin and the girl is voluptuous or the other way around, people do make some nasty comment about them. Is looks really the basis of everything?
How about if the one is talkative and the other one is a silent type? Could they make a better pairing? Well in some way they could. That’s because If you are a talkative type of a person, most of the time you are looking for someone who is opposite of you to balance the scale. Same when you are a silent type, you are looking for somebody that can talk a lot. Maybe we are looking for someone that can patch our weak spot.
But it is better if you have a lot more in common; it will make the relationship lasts longer. I believe that good relationship has a good foundation if you have the same view and the same perspective in life, rather than the other way around.
So do you believe in opposite attraction?
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This is what I learned during my 12-year marriage and fortunately, still growing. Opposite attract, if and only if both sides will allow it, and nothing (like insulator that do not drive current) is in between.
We cannot force, nor wait for compatibility in a relationship. You will not know it until you’re there. Why? Because things change, people change, and we cannot change it. Compatibility is a decision, and you cannot promise that it will be forever.
You have a point Sir Angel, Opposite attracts if you allow it. I love the “Compatibility is a decision” that’s right. Take care!
Well, as for me, I have a lot of friends that have the opposite personality as a couple. I think they continued to have a strong marriage relationship because they seem to compliment one another.
Complimenting each others strength and weaknesses could be one of the relationships greatest foundation. Take care Sir Mon!
Yes I do believe in opposite attraction and to some extent you assumed right that sometimes people are attracted to those who don’t have similar interests. Personally I think these kind of relationships aren’t long lasting. Couples enjoy different opinions, likes and dislikes for a limited era and time comes when they want something to be common in them. So I would recommend to find people who have same interests because it’s the only way you can have an ever lasting relationship. I would end up by saying that a relationship will work out if you are willing to compromise.