Did you know that personality and how you handle your communication with others will make you an effective communicator? Did you ever wonder why other guys or girls are more popular than others? Why they have such a successful public relations than some of us?
Is that an inborn talent or you can develop it through constant practice? I don’t believe in inborn talent because all human beings when they are still a baby they don’t know something and actually learn something year after year of growing up.
So any talent and knowledge you have is the result of intense practice when you are still young and continuous passion of everything you do. So all this individuals with a good charisma with people also learn it with practice and right mindset. After long battles of trial an error they master the right combination on how to deal with any kind of people.
I believe that opening up yourself to others can break the ice with the right combination of personality and a little bit of humor you can really open the other person’s soul. Listening is also one of the key and the right attitude without fear of rejection and without fear of turned down.
The passage that “Don’t treat other people like other people, treat it like your own” can be a good mindset to consider with. So try it and you will be amazed on the result just don’t think negatively, handle it with positive thoughts.
I had an experiment doing it and I love the reaction of people I have talked with, they said we just talked for a couple of minutes and it seems like we are friends for a long time and they also said that I am feeling close already to them. But it’s really a good thing if you can open up yourself to others with no holding back. There is always a negative reaction from someone else but don’t let it bother you just be honest in communicating with them.
Just be comfortable of who you are, if you have some flaws in your personality learn to adjust to it and make it your strength. These will not be effective if you don’t try it yourself. Allow you to have a carefree move but always have awareness.
You can’t have a fulfilling life if you always worried of peoples have to say, learn to deal with things and accept whatever imperfection you had. But if you can improve it, do it!
Open up, Open up, Open up that’s it!
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Bro, if i’d ask you to edit my blog template, magkano kaya yun????
Well I will give it for free brother if you have time I will teach you how to do it. Take care!
opening one’s personality is great but we have to be very careful to whom we opened up. you know, some people take advantage of it.
just my two cents…been there, done that and it was hell. it took me awhile to revive myself.
Yes john, Snow is right. Opening up to somebody is not advisable especially to your new found friends who might take advantage of you. I am also an outgoing person but I rarely opened up myself to just anybody. I usually tries to know the person more or deeper before I do it.
To Ma’am Snow and Sir Mon- You have a point Sir Mon and Ma’am Snow but what I really mean is try to participate more throw yourself out there but not opening up your whole life or your secrets. I know that society is harsh when they don’t understand what your going through or your place. Take care always!