Tips From The “Alex”:
The Alex Interview Special Report
One of the biggest differences between guys who are REALLY successful with women and guys who are just moderately successful is that the “pros” are ALWAYS willing to “walk away”.
People don’t value what they don’t have to work for… and if a woman knows that you will be around and willing no matter what she does, then SHE has the power and control.
This “exchange of power” starts from the moment you meet a woman.
A woman can tell as soon as you walk up to her whether you “care” or not if it goes well.
If she can sense that you “only have eyes for her”, she won’t have any reason to try to impress you… because she knows that you have already made up your mind about her…
On the other hand, if she senses that you are just out having fun and will leave in an instant if she says or does something you don’t agree with, she will be on her best behavior to try and impress YOU and keep you around.
It’s ironic in how it works… but it’s absolutely true.
So the key here is to avoid the “scarcity” mindset at all costs.
Know that there is ALWAYS another hot woman waiting around the corner… and be selective when deciding to stick with the one you’re with, or move on.
When you really internalize the attitude that YOU are the selector, it will come across in everything you do… AND… cause every woman you meet to WORK to hold your attention.
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Hi there, This is very true and as a male, it can be hard to see that until after a relationship is over as being taken advantage or taken for granted can be a hard pit to fall into. Great post. Thanks