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Most Guys Fail at Text Messaging Because…

by johnlazy on March 27, 2010

By: Tyler Tray

  • They come across too nice.
  • They text the full 160 characters while a woman is only texting less than 20.
  • They say too much and are too nice saying it.
  • They try having a conversation via text. Save the whole conversation thing for when you’re in person or at least on the phone.
  • They follow the woman’s flow of conversation and answer all of her questions.
  • They don’t ask them out to do something.
  • They don’t try to get to know the girl
  • They don’t include the woman in their responses. Women are more interested when something involves them. So try to relate things back to her. Implying her involvement in something is a creative way to do that.
  • Their texts aren’t written to be responded too. For example, if a woman writes “Hey, what did you do last night?” and the response she gets is, “Went to the movies.” It leaves her with nothing, no emotion, no fun, just dullness. Instead, say something like “Hey, I saw a movie and it got me thinking about you.” She says something like “Oh really, what’s that?” Then say something like “There was this adorable little puppy, that whined like you.”
  • They have long messages that make too much sense. Keeping a text logical is boring. Instead, spice it UP!
  • They are always available when a woman texts them.
  • They write boring texts. Instead use punctuation, like ALL CAPS, exclamation marks, question marks, etc. Every so often use a smiley face. Use descriptive words and adjectives. Match the feeling of the text that fits the emotions involved in what you’re writing. For instance, if I saw a movie, I’m not going to be all excited like “Hey! I just saw a movie!”
  • Texting “Ok” is a waste of a text. If it must be said then follow it with something like “Ok, talk to ya later.”
  • They seek the woman’s approval.
  • They agree to everything she wants and says instead of putting up a challenge.
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1 Joedel March 27, 2010 at 10:25 am

Nice points. In general though, I don’t believe texting is a good way to get a woman.
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