Why do we love? So we can have somebody to talk to? Who can be there if we want to go out, someone that can treat us if we are hungry? Who is willing to carry our baggage, a helper for short?
What if he/she didn’t love you? Would you still love him/her? Would you still continue to care for that person? Why not? You didn’t love that person so that you can have a helper, a free meal, someone who can do your assignments or projects or someone you can drag if you want to go out. If that’s what you think about love, well sorry you are a shallow person.
Loving a person doesn’t need to have a criteria that he/she should be handsome or beautiful, the important thing is he/she is nice and understanding, because once you fall in love you take the risk of accepting that person even if he/she is snoring like a pig at night. Even if he/she eat so much and can’t even fit in public transport when full. Even if you already want to spank that person because of his/her moodiness, even your friends is the cause of his/her jealousy, you still continue.
It sucks right! She/he is being fussy to the point where it is already OA and all the things that would turn you off. It is really hard to love trying to be perfect. You want the relationship to last but that is not the answer to all.
Accepting the real person fully, because if you said you love the person you don’t need to find the answers why you love that person. Things change and so is the person, but if you accept the wholeness of the person even if he/she change in the middle of the relationship you will not be hurt because you know that time will come and you accept that fully.
It’s hard to do but it’s worth the feeling if you let one person feel that you love him/her dearly without asking for anything in return, then you can say, Wow! That’s what love means. Being happy doesn’t mean everything is perfect. It means you’ve decided to see beyond the imperfection.
You can say; do you know I exist, just to promise you this
Endlessly to be true to you, and if you answer me
In the name of my heart I’d swear
Endlessly to be true to you,
And if you’d only see
How beautiful you and I would be, endlessly
It is funny how love works. It is a big oxymoron. All you say to him/her you can flip it and it is still true. It’s not clear right but it’s clear. It’s happy to love, it’s sad to love. You can’t understand but you understand it. There is no reason but there’s a lot of reason. You can’t take it anymore, but you still can take it. It hurts to love but its okay. What the heck! What is what!
I have a friend who said to me before that, “Love is only for stupid people” It is really funny because he is vocal on that one, but there comes a time when he ate his words, he is struck by love and he is now stupid. Because all the things love passed will become oxymoron or sometimes it’s only moron.
Love is not only reversed but all things can be reversed. The entire powerful person weakened, the arrogant can become humble, and the genius can run out of answers, the saddest can be the happiest.
It is really funny, especially if these would come to a person who doesn’t want to love anymore. I also realize it! That if you want to be in love again just say the word “I don’t want to be in love again” and then WACHA! There comes the love again starting to teased you and you will also let it teased you.
It is also funny that when it comes to the problem of other people you are good on advising but if it’s your problem at stake all the advice you gave from other people lost its value. You will realize there’s no wrong advice you can think of that you gave from other people but there is no right also.
People also turn things upside down when it comes to love. I’ll also come to realize on it. You will say it’s really beautiful to live and also you want to die. If he/she broke your heart you will blame the person, why did he/she hurt me accompanied by punch in the wall and sudden drop of the door. Well if you really think of it you really love the feeling.
It’s really crazy how love works; it’s really funny and also teary. Try your best to make it work.
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Hi John! So this is where you are! I’m impressed =)
Thanks for droppin by Ma’am Christinchen, Take care always I read your blog post I love the story of the delinquent tenant.