Listening is one of the key to open up communication problem and it is the basic way to let people know that you care. It is definitely important , so it must be enhance.
Last night my friend showed up here at the house and shared something to me. He shared some love problems and some love insights. We had some shot, two bottles of brandy while we share each others take on love. I’m not really used to drinking that’s why I got drunk right away. I have some hangover until now and that’s why I have a late post.
Back to listening, Listening can be a big boost to someone who longs for somebody they can depend on if they have a problem. A friend, a family, a best friend, a mentor, a stranger, whoever willing to lend an ear will really helped a lot.
I remember a post from fatherblogger.com about the guy who commits suicide online. According to what I read, he is a depress individual and he post his problem in one of the forum, instead of giving some help and listen to that guy’s problem, some of the guys there make it a joke and encourage that guy to commit suicide. And he did, poor guy!
We don’t need that kind of action from anybody, if you can help, help! A simple listening can do, that’s all they need, as simple as that can inspire them to look beyond the problem they’re facing. You can motivate them by paying attention to what they are saying. You don’t have to talk a lot to better their condition, you don’t have to provide something to comfort them and you don’t have to be a solution to assist. All they need, all they want is for you to listen to them and understand.
To listen is not to take charge for them, to listen is to be aware of what hardship they are encountering to recognize that and be supportive to their feelings. Giving moral support that they can do it! Give them a vision to ponder, what would be the consequence of any actions and any bad intentions they are taking into account. It can really turn around things, and really make a positive impact.
Listening is vital, even though you are a stranger to someone but if you feel you can help him/her to make their emotions be better that would be really great. So don’t think twice if anybody needs you to listen to their problems, a single act of listening can save a hundreds of thousands of lives.
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In my opinion, listening is the best way to have good communication within the family, community, and even within nations.
I think the problem of our society is most of us wants to talk, but no one wants to listen. The Holy War, as I believe the best solution to stop is to listen and respect.
Thanks for the link, buddy!
That’s right Sir Angel, Listening is the missing piece in communication in the world. Everybody wants to be heard but no one cares to listen. Take care!
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hi, i had been out for a week..thanks for ur support.. u have been doing a good job..have great day!!!…meanwhile nice post
Thanks Friendz take care! nice to have you back!