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Learning Curve on Pick up

by johnlazy on January 10, 2010

What’s the best way to learn a pickup game is by actually doing it. But remember every culture has different setup on picking up the name and the number of the girl. I’m in the conservative place where girls are reluctant to even exchanging names if they are not comfortable with you.

I’ve tried to do the pickup game of the western civilization but it doesn’t work here because most of the girls here are conservative and don’t know even how to flirt.  I think it is a learning curve for me but the best thing I discovered is to use my charm to make the woman at ease in talking with me.

I love it! I’m reading the book by Neil Strauss which is The Game and it opens up some perspective on how to deal with the NLP and how to make it advantageous to you.  It is all about setting up the mind to be more confident and be advanced in your game. It takes a lot of practice if you want to be good at it.

I know I am a shy type of guy and I’m afraid to bother a girl even if I want that girl but after conditioning my mind on certain things slowly but surely it am beginning to make results, wow a direct approach and some charm could seal the deal.

Well the kind of girl I approaches is on the level B I can’t wait to step up the notch and make those level A fall in love with me. It is all about the willingness to do whatever is in your mind. I have more way to go so much more to learn but that is the exciting part of it the learning curve that I will be taking.

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1 Walter January 28, 2010 at 9:50 pm

We can be good at everything if we put on effort and believe in ourselves. :-)

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