Dating Right Away After Break-Up

When you are in single’s mode and the loneliness always stressed you, do you consider a date right away? Just to say, to ease the pain of suffering from the former break-up you had or you have to give it a time to look into the feeling and process the emotion you’ve been holding on.

Well let’s give an example, you have been in a heated argument with your boyfriend/girlfriend and that lead to nasty break-up. The reason maybe, you caught her/him cheating on you or because there is a third party going on which is usual today, or maybe the love isn’t working and you have decided not to keep the relationship any more.  Which is which it will certainly leave a painful mark and a deep scar, but if the feeling is not that deep any longer we can say maybe a little pain.

So you’ll go to your friends or maybe families for advice. And surprise! They have a lot to say, friends and families are really good at it when it comes to relationship failure. There is no really surprise about it, that’s how human works. If you are a guy it takes a lot of alcohol to take with your buddies, And if you are a girl maybe an in house drama will do or if you are a party girl revel up till morning with your gals. Then they will comfort you in amazing ways. If you are a guy they will advice you ” That’s ok buddy you can get over it there’s a lot of women out there, she’s not worth it!” And if you are a girl of course they will comfort you in a different way, your gal friend will listen to you in whatever pain your feeling and hug you cuddle you  while your tears keeps falling or maybe party hard with your gal friends.

After a  moment of discharging the heaviness of the emotional state, you’d come to an instant where you had to figure it out yourself, that no one can really decide it for you but you yourself. I’m sure dating right away is one of your options, because it is one way to lessen the burden you’re carrying. So, is dating right away justly?

There is a 3 month rule that they’re saying, that if you want to date you have to wait for 3 months before you can do that because it is a sign of respect for the relationship you just had. Is this reasonably partial? What if you meet right away a kind of partner that you felt good about, do you consider going at it right away? Or waiting still is the name of the game.

I think both are right in some way, waiting for 3 months after break-up is kind of reasonable because it will help you think about what really goes wrong in the relationship. Thinking over and over again and processing the feeling to know if you really love the person and if there is possibility that you can get back together. On the other hand, dating right away after a break up makes sense especially when you got to know a person that can replace your ex in some way. You can enjoy the moment instead of locking your room and crying all day and have a stressful moment.

It’s up to you really on how to handle any situation about relationship break-ups. The important thing is you know how your feeling goes and realize all the possibilities of all your actions. Make it a point that whatever your decision is don’t supplement it with regrets. And don’t forget also your values.

So, is dating right away after break-up alright? It’s up for you to decide!

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