By: Marius Panzarella
Character:
Bad Attitude #1: The “I’m Afraid Of Rejection” Attitude
Bad Attitude #2: The “But She’s The Only Girl I’ll Ever Love” Attitude
Bad Attitude #3: The “I Don’t Need Women” Attitude
Bad Attitude #4: The “She’s Too Beautiful” Attitude
Good Attitude #1: The Playful Attitude
Good Attitude #2: The “I don’t Care” Attitude
Good Attitude #3: The “How Far Can I Go?” Attitude
Good Attitude #4: The “Truth And Dare” Attitude
Bad Traits: Insecurity, neediness, over-possessiveness, showiness, negativity, indecisiveness, pushiness, defensiveness, boring, asexual
Good Traits: Masculine, leader, ambitious, charming, strength, determined, charming, sexual, humorous, optimistic, sensual, romantic, mysterious, sensual, thoughtful, intelligent, educated, cultured.
Body Language:
When you walk: Always walk upright with your head held up and your shoulders back. Lift up your chest. Be proud. Don’t hunch.
When you sit: Try to open your body up by taking up more space. Never let your legs crossed. Always keep them apart and your shoulders back. Back is the keyword here. Don’t lean forward, lean back.
When you move: Try to slow down your movements as much as possible.
Voice Tone
A good voice depends on:
Resonance – How well your mouth resonate your voice.
Musicality – How musical the tone is. Is it all flat and boring, or does it sound rich?
Articulation – How well your articulate your words. Or do you just babble a lot?
Speaking Tips:
Pause When You Speak: Great speakers know how to build anticipation in their speech. They know when to pause – such as right before important words and ideas. Combine this with serious looks for even better results. For example: “Have you ever met someone who’s just…(pause) as (serious look) venerable as you are deep inside?”
Talk Deeper: feel your chest resonate when you speak. Inhale and take a big yawn, and as you go “down”, let out on a long vowel or a consonant-vowel sequence (e.g. aaah, oooh, eeeee, mmmaaaa, mmmoooo, mmuuu, baaa, beeee,).
Use a Tape Recorder: Hear what you sound like and make improvements.
Avoid The Fading Tone: A lot of guys sound boring because of their fading tone. They run out of breath before they finish their sentences!
Stop Sounding Nasal: Lift your soft palate when you speak. To find your soft palate, imagine you’re singing the highest sound you can sing. Don’t actually sing it. Just IMAGINE it with your mouth closed. You will feel an area lifting up at the back of your mouth. That’s your soft palate. Now, try this again in front of a mirror, with your mouth open, to see your soft palate lifting up. Next, add an “ah” behind every word as you read the following phrases. Really emphasize on the “ah” and open fully when you say it.
King Kong becomes King-Ah-Kong-Ah
Ding Dong becomes Ding-Ah-Dong-Ah
Bing Bong becomes Being-Ah-Bong-Ah
Ling Long becomes Ling-Ah-Long-Ah
Improve your articulation: Practice tongue twisters daily to improve your articulation.
You need unique New York.
The lips, the teeth, the tip of the tongue.
Topeka, Bodega.
The sixth sick sheik’s sixth sheep’s sick.
Red leather, yellow leather.
Rubber baby buggy bumper.
Sushi chef
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