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Change your Behavior Before You Can Change your Mind

by johnlazy on January 4, 2010

When you are sick and tired of what is happening to you right now and you want something to happen but you seem like don’t know what to do because you are caught up on so many destructions coming from so many unwanted situations and you can’t handle it anymore, all you are waiting is somebody to catch you up or slap you in the face so that you can face your own reality.

You have to take the fact that your brain is the most powerful part of your body because it is where your central processing takes place and you have to be aware that sometimes not all it process is the true nature of reality. Emotions are the integral part of where your decisions will come into play and you have to practice interchanging your mind and your emotions.

I think if you want positive things to happen to you try changing your behavior and you will see what I’m talking about. The problem with us people is we constantly changing our mind believing that if we do so we will get a better results, sometimes it may be true but most of the time it will lead us nowhere but frustrations.

Why not be persistent on changing your behavior first. Be calm if you are becoming frustrated on something, remind yourself that everything will be okay it takes practice don’t get too emotional and stay on the cooler side.

I for example become numb if I’m facing somebody with anger and that person keeps on pushing the envelope on me but I just stare at them feeling nothing because I don’t see a point fighting with somebody with anger. If I want to fight somebody I want that person to think well because if emotions get in our way that would be a mismatch of character.

All I’m saying is positive behavior can change what your mind is trying to but failed to do. Try some experiment on your own just do some positive behavior and whatever happen don’t ever let the negative aspect of your mind get into it. Is that a positive thinking? Maybe you can say so but without a particular action that would be useless, right? Just don’t complain and whine just do the task that is what I’m trying to imply.

The greatest lesson you will learn is maturity. Because maturity makes a great impact on your whole being not only on how you perceive things but also on how you deal with situations. So start doing without thinking too hard because if you let your mind decide all the time there are a lot of options that come out, to a point where you don’t know which is which anymore.

How about making your life simpler ha, do you like that idea?  If you don’t need a particular thing dump it! Simple ha! Learn to uncluttered your own life bit by bit, yah you can do it!

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1 Training Social Skills February 2, 2010 at 1:51 am

Hello,

I subscribe to your point of view. And I like a lot your motto: “The Greatest Victory Is To Be Who You Truly Are In Spite Of All the Odds”.
From my life experience, I’ve been trying many times to change my mind and beliefs in order to obtain good results for different situations. The problem was that I didn’t feel good. Maybe the other ones did.
From 2 years, I am trying to change my behaviour and you know what? It is much better and successfully.
Silvia.
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