By: Derek Vitalio
Men who are always getting laid like rock stars NEVER reveal their secrets about women. If you ask them, they may tell you one thing when in fact they act completely differently, if you observe closely.
Usually they give you lame, bullshit “advice” like, “Just be yourself”, or “Just treat her like shit.” What a crock… players say this b.s. simply because they don’t want you in on all the pussy they get.
Jessica
I knew this guy who slept with a lot of women… or at least he bragged about it a lot to me… one of my close friends even admitted she had sex with him! I think it was the way he made eye contact. He’d just you look at you as if he wanted to rip off her clothes right there.
Chelsea
My father always told me to stay away from rough men. lol And now I know why. One day after work, I went to a bar and bumped into this tall biker with a beer belly. He had all these scary tattoos on his arms. But he gave me this really sexy look with his eyes. He came up to me and we started to talk, even though I was reluctant at first. But he was so relaxed about everything and sexy that I felt myself getting hot. I couldn’t believe I felt like this! He gave me a ride home on his Harley that night and you can imagine how much fun we had.
Exclusive Interview With A Player
Derek: Zach, you’ve slept with over 50 women and nearly 10 this past year.
What’s your secret?
Zach: To score with chicks, you really have to learn to detach yourself from yourself. Meaning that who gives a shit who you are or what you think you are or what others think you should be or what norms you’re suppose to follow.
Derek: Can you give us an example?
Zach: Yeah. Just look at Bill Murray in the movie “Groundhog Day”… he’s an asshole and no one likes him. After he wakes up on the same day, day after day after day, he just starts doing crazy shit after a while because who cares, there are no consequences! He fucks with people’s minds. He does stuff he’d never normally do. He becomes the Alpha-male. Because he leaves his old social self behind because the social norms DON’T MATTER. There are no consequences.
Derek: How does that apply to getting laid?
Zach: You have to consider the world like that too. TALK TO A BUNCH OF GIRLS IN FRONT OF THEIR BOYFRIENDS – APPROACH GROUPS OF GIRLS — WHO GIVES A SHIT! SCREW THE NORMS, that is what a player does.
Derek: Easier said than done, right? How can the average guy learn to do that?
Zach: Easy. ACT LIKE EVERY DAY IS YOUR LAST DAY ON THE FUCKING EARTH AND
YOU WILL GET LAID. Don’t leave your house until you believe this and are in that frame of mind!!!
Derek: You’ve said before it’s kind of like acting.
Zach: Think about it: when you give a performance on stage, you are STEPPING OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF and you feel free to say what would normally be a bunch of crazy shit and the attention is on you. You feel that rush because you said “FUCK YOU” to what your normal self would normally do. In a performance situation, unfortunately, that “Fuck you to my normal social self” is STRUCTURED, so you know you can also step back into your old self after you’re done,
BACK TO YOUR PRISON. The key to feeling ALPHA ALL THE TIME is to tell your normal self to go fuck off, not just in structured situations like a performance, BUT ALL THE TIME EVERY DAY. Girls are a FUN game. You are NOT a bold guy, you just come across as bold BECAUSE YOU DON’T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT CONSEQUENCES. Guys who are BOLD give a shit, so they have to work up the confidence and then IT IS FAKE.
Derek: What does “not giving a shit” allow you do to?
Zach: Well you do things without regard to consequences, like talk to girls in front of their boyfriends, or talk shit to them in groups. And if they’re cold to you, call them on it. BE A FUN GUY AND YOU WILL BE ALPHA AND GIRLS WILL RESPOND. Yes, you will CRASH AND BURN but players don’t care because IT IS A GAME and they don’t care what people think, and because to them it’s their last day on Earth.
Derek: So what do you recommend for people who don’t have that attitude… how do they learn it?
Zach: In the morning, work yourself up into the state of mind that this is YOUR LAST DAY ON EARTH and you will do crazy shit with girls because you will FUCKING DIE TOMORROW. You don’t care what your friends, parents, roommates, coworkers, strangers, girls you meet, their boyfriends, or anyone thinks about you. YOU ARE A FREE AGENT FROM ALL SOCIAL NORMS. You don’t care what YOU think about YOU. What you did yesterday or whenever HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHO YOU ARE OR WHAT YOU’RE DOING TODAY. You are NOT bold, you just don’t give a shit so you are PERCEIVED AS BOLD. Your confidence is genuine. Boldness implies you’re scared of the consequences, you just acted in spite of them. If you can be in this frame of mind, it will make a 500% difference.
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I find it is really important to be yourself and just relax, trying to be someone else will just fail because at some point the true you will have to come out. Thanks for posting