Are you holding back yourself from getting a relationship you want? Why! Are you afraid of something? Maybe you are thinking it will never work out and you can be left out with broken hearts and bruised emotional pain. Or maybe you can’t trust people anymore.
If you are just starting out maybe you’re afraid because of inexperience, that would be understandable because you don’t have yet knowledge and skills and the most important thing is experience. So what would be the best thing to do? Well you have to try it out to know the feeling if it fits you or not and if you have valid reason to feel like you did before you started out.
When you tried it out and the experience brings you positive outlook in a relationship that will open up things and the notion you had in mind is just a belief with no basis. But when the relationship brings you heartache and pain that is still a good sign because you’re already in real world of relationship and broken heartedness is a part of the equation. There will be a welcome message saying “WELCOME TO THE RELATIONSHIP WORLD WHERE THE GREATEST FEELING EXIST, JOY AND SORROW, HAPPINESS AND SADNESS, and ALL OTHER EXTRAORDINARY FEELINGS YOU CAN EXPERIENCE “.
But what if you already experience a bad relationship with a nasty break-up and the experience you had suck, and then you told yourself you will no longer again be in a relationship. Your experience had a basis but that is not enough reason to try it out again, I remember a quote in the movie; “There is a reason why our partners leaving us because there are someone out there more deserving of our love and willing to embrace our weaknesses”. That is true you will find soon that person you are looking for ‘IN THE RIGHT TIME’.
We have so many reasons why we don’t want to have a relationship, maybe there is a hindrance that we ourselves can only understand and you don’t want someone to be a part of it. Well if that is the case, only you can decide on that one. Just try to balance things up; maybe in the future you will know the answer.
Are you afraid to get into a relationship? Don’t be!
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This post made sense… But to be honest I still am.
I am soooooo sooo negative about the whole thing … I cant seem to believe and love fullly..
I am seeing someone now…But sadly , I already think that he will reject me and break my heart..although nothing like that has been happening…
Its just soo hard to believe…:(
To Indrayani- Just give it a chance, if it turned out the way you don’t want it to be then give some time and try it again soon your true love will come. Take care!
what if my relationship doesn’t work out again? it’s hard to move on especially whenever same situations come up and you will always be reminded how painful your past was.
To Rachel- That’s part of life when you enter into relationship you know the consequences and sometimes you will get hurt in the process but that’s a part of a relationship. If you failed once try and try until you have found the one you have been waiting for. Don’t lose hope. Take care!
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