Have you been In and Out of relationship lately? Or you can’t compromise with your partner. You’ve done everything in your own capacity but still it seems doesn’t work. So you decided to break it up to give it some time. You’re hoping your decision will work and that your partner will soon realize what is lacking in your relationship, but then you perceive it wrong.
The man or woman in your life seem doesn’t care about your relationship. She/he is getting worse, you always see him/her with a lot of vices and a lot of partner in his/her arm. So you decided to get back with your significant other to bring him/her back to track once again. And then he/she did accept you back, you think the problem will stop there but you got it incorrect.
The relationship you had is a mistake but you can’t admit it because you’re hoping that it will get better.
I’ll give you my interpretation on this, 10 REASONS WHY YOU’RE IN AND OUT OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP:
1.) YOU’RE SCARED OF CHANGE
You’re scared that if you drop the relationship, you will not be the same anymore. Of course, you will not be the same anymore because you’re one weight lighter because the extra baggage had been drop. But of course the person that you are, you are scared of change.
2.) YOU CAN’T STAND ON YOUR OWN
You had been babysit by your partner, that’s why in the time that you have to stand on your own you can’t do it anymore because you become dependent of your partner. You had just become a spoiled brat in a wrong way.
3.) YOUR HEART IS DECEIVING YOU
You’ve been told by your heart that you love the person that’s why it is hard to let him/her go. I don’t think so, your heart just deceive you to believe that way. Think and be rational about it, Is your heart really feel genuine about it?
4.) YOU’RE A COWARD
You can’t move on that’s why; you assumed that it’s better to die than live your life without him/her. You’re coward, just face it and improved yourself. Change your view and study the word “courage”.
5.) YOU BELIEVED YOU WILL BE BETTER WITH THAT PERSON
You believed that in yourself do you, that he/she compliments you. Your life is his or her love. Living with that person for the rest of your life is a great idea, but it isn’t. You just make excuses to excuse yourself to the truth. What is the truth? The truth is she/he can make no good to you. She/he doesn’t serve your purpose here on earth. Make no mistake about that.
6.) YOUR EMOTION HAS BEEN BLACK MAIL
Your lover told you that he/she is the only one that can make you happy. And you agree! Nice way to put yourself to the black hole of sorrow. You have been emotionally black mail, you know it but you can’t do anything about it. That’s what you’re saying but it has no basis, you can do something about it if you want to.
7.) YOU SUPPOSED THAT BEING MARTYR IS THE BEST POLICY
Wow! A martyr, I salute you for that. You are my hero, is that make you happy? If yes then I have no problem about it. You’re the one that got a problem, Martyr in a relationship are those people that doesn’t know about the true meaning of love, Loving is not always giving, you have also to take something. That’s why it is called give and take.
8.) YOU THOUGHT BEING OBSESSIVE IS NORMAL
It is okay to love your partner not to the extent that you are being obsessive about him/her to the point that you do crazy stuff that is not healthy. You should also give space to the person to grow.
9.) YOU’VE LEARN TO EMBRACE CRUELTY
Even if your partner is abusing you already, you don’t want to take actions because your reason is, he/she just got drunk that’s why he/she did something not nice on you. You tell everyone noticing some red and black spot on your skin that he/she is proper if not on the spirit of alcohol. Learning to embrace cruelty has its own limit. Sometimes enough is enough.
10.) YOU ASSUMED YOU’RE A HERO
Whatever is your reason for having In and Out of relationship over and over again? It is your call. If you think you can be the savior of the universe, the hero ready to save people and change people any day, anytime everyday that’s your prerogative, But if you want to be a hero save yourself first.
So, are you still In and Out of a relationship?
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That’s a lot of reason john. A friend of mine have only 1 reason. It’s either your with me or against me.hehehe.Ang pogi kasi,nakakalaglag panty. hehehe
wow! hehehehehehe that’s his advantage sir.
Hmm…I’ve been through a lot before. You’re quite right John. We used to enclose ourselves in a cage we’re afraid of everything even without trying first. But now, I’m outside of my shell, exploring things and cherishing everything.
Well that’s good for you dyosah, explore the world
There are a lot of reason. Anyway, this is the main reasons
Thanks for dropping by love-ely there are many reasons but that is what i think are the top 10 reasons
@ Johnlazy. I totally agree with you. I believe that these ARE the TOP 10. I finally let go of my restraints and moved on from my last relationship. I felt like I was in a rut and that I never would get out of it! I kept wanting to call him, but I forced myself not to. Right now I am so happy that I never called. I find that relationships aren’t always easy. It takes 2 not 1, fellas to make a relationship work RIGHT!!!!!! If you only have yourself on your mind then the relationship will not work out… same goes for the ladies. Great TOPIC!!!!! Take care Johnlazy.
Thank you very much – these look great!
To Jessica – I wish you the best Jessica, that’s good for you. Take care always!
To Dolce – Thanks also for dropping by Take care!